Social
Family Gathering
We have had a rocky relationship with my brother-in-law for many years. He is a jerk! Finally, our families ceased talking to each other. Recently, when we had to attend a family wedding where he would be, I was very concerned. I anticipated many problems and hurt feelings. Knowing the way he behaves, I had Madhu do some work with me on this area. To my surprise, I was very relaxed at the wedding, I spoke to him and his family without any issues. It's like something shifted. I made efforts to be kind and social. Instead of it being grueling and painful, I really enjoyed the wedding. My brother-in-law continued to be a jerk, but it did not affect me and in fact relatives were commenting on how difficult he was, and appreciating how well I was handling it!
NK, Maryland
